Contradictive Attraction

Devilish things indeed are alluring.

We often heard people say (especially in my country), rules are made to be broken. People have the tendency to peek, if they are told not to look. We are interested to know secretive issues that we are not supposed to know.

We also often see how (good) girls are attracted with (really) bad boys. The more her parents told her not to date such guy, the more likely the girl will go out with him. The worse the boy is, the more attractive he is. It is the never ending challenges that keep the passion alive.

We also often been told that husbands are most likely lie to the spouse if she limits the social life of her husband. The tighter she put an invisible chain around her husband neck (extreme visualization), the harder effort he would take.

Lessons learned are to limit setting strict boundaries, especially to our children, as those boundaries would definitely lure us, human, to cross over them. Explain to the young ones what the consequences of an action, not merely putting a 'do not enter' sign in front of the red door. Let our partner move as a unique individual while showering him or her with passionate love.

Last note, always remember, there are types of human whowere just born bad and undeniable attractive. Just stay away.